~ Recently been mulling over the fact that in the many different relationships I’ve had in life, I’ve switched roles in an almost karmaic (if indeed that were a word) fashion. For example, wherein one relationship I was the hurtee, in another relationship I became the hurter (in weirdly similar fashion, though completely unrelated relationships) and vice-versa with other things as well. Is it non-reincarnated but present life karma? Or is it learned behavior from people we’ve had significant relationships with? Is that why people who swear never to be like their mothers/fathers grow up and become exactly like them?
~ Am I temporally incongruous? I was called an “Anachronism” by someone really close, which made me wonder. Am I living in a modern world with old world ideas? Who decides these things? I mean, who decides who’s temporally congruous with the world and who’s not? Society? Who them be? Mass Poll? Where them be taken? Am I Scarlett O’Hara? Wasn’t she “selfish, shrewd and vain”? That doesn’t sound too complimentary now does it?
~ Why do people say “Blogs” instead of “Posts”? Why do they think I’ve made a new post when I’m saying I have a new blog? Incidentally, I’ve bought the new domain - it’s Melodylaila.com/thoughts.
Thought I’d add as an aside, though I’m shamelessly trying to promote the new blog (I so love it!). Why do people do that? Why do people put things they want to scream out loudly as asides? Don’t people know that everything is obvious to most people most of the time? Is that why people who want to shamelessly promote things say that they are shamelessly promoting things? So it seems less like shameless promotion? (btw, an aside 
, while I’m shameless promoting the blog, why don’t you check it out, add to your feeds & link from your blogrolls? Thx!)
~ Why do we fight with people whom we love? Why are relationships always the most difficult with people whom we love? Why do we expect more from these people? Is that why they disappoint us more?
~ Why is that I was thinking of my ideal man who I’d want to settled down with & I thought of Topher Grace? Is it because he’s one of them tall, skinny & lanky, bespectacled, suited and seemingly nerdy boys (ah, love you my Adam Brody) ? What is it about yuppy boys? Then again I also have a thing for Joeys & Jon Bon Jovis. What is it about every Bon Jovi song that make me want to sing out REAL loudly?
~ Why am I wasting time thinking of ridiculous things? Will go now.
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December 12th, 2007 at 10:56 pm
Eric Foreman? Seriously??
…and I loved your new Thoughts webblog — keep ‘em coming!
December 16th, 2007 at 5:21 am
( sowwie if i dissed you .this was just random fun , no sweat)
Is it non-reincarnated but present life karma?
naah that cant be it ..
Or is it learned behavior from people we’ve had significant relationships with?
scientifically. yes
Is that why people who swear never to be like their mothers/fathers grow up and become exactly like them?
yup , unless they have common sense
Am I temporally incongruous?
No i dont think so
Am I living in a modern world with old world ideas?
yo!
Who decides these things?
the man does
(wikipedia - The_Man or watch : the school of rock)
who decides who’s temporally congruous with the world and who’s not?
umm .. your friend ?
Society?
ok . society
Who them be?
the stoopid uncles and aunties in your building
Mass Poll?
same thing
Where them be taken?
umm .. polling booth?
Am I Scarlett O’Hara?
no you are melody
Wasn’t she “selfish, shrewd and vain”?
yeah ! thats what wikipedia says!
That doesn’t sound too complimentary now does it?
hmm
Why do people say “Blogs” instead of “Posts”?
they are “people” not bloggers
Why do they think I’ve made a new post when I’m saying I have a new blog?
ok..ok..ok we got your point … you have a new blog - melody laila
Why do people do that? Why do people put things they want to scream out loudly as asides?
… ok guys dont do that lol
Don’t people know that everything is obvious to most people most of the time?
sheeh .. this really is a random post
Is that why people who want to shamelessly promote things say that they are shamelessly promoting things?
you got me … im lost
So it seems less like shameless promotion?
(btw, an aside , while I’m shameless promoting the blog, why don’t you check it out, add to your feeds & link from your blogrolls? Thx!)
No way!!! lmao
Why do we fight with people whom we love?
umm cuz thats whats gets us closer to them
Why are relationships always the most difficult with people whom we love?
because of the chemicals in theur head
Why do we expect more from these people?
because err eerrr … they once did things and all .. and now they dont
Is that why they disappoint us more?
yes
Why is that I was thinking of my ideal man who I’d want to settled down with & I thought of Topher Grace?
topper who?
Is it because he’s one of them tall, skinny & lanky, bespectacled, suited and seemingly nerdy boys (ah, love you my Adam Brody) ?
wha?
What is it about yuppy boys?
this is gross…………………………
Then again I also have a thing for Joeys & Jon Bon Jovis.
ewwwwwwwww
What is it about every Bon Jovi song that make me want to sing out REAL loudly?
now , dont put the blame on him