Melody on March 28th, 2006

In a sort of a silly mood & thought I’d share with you guys some of the nicknames people call/have called me over the years:

(01) Veronica Lodge / Ronnie - Have no idea why I got stuck with this nick at school, but there you have it. Assure you I am not a spoilt little conceited brat. Am glamour, style, culture and class, all wrapped up in one stunning package though :)

(02) Trapper - This was around the time M*A*S*H was being aired on TV. We all loved it at school & we each was assigned a character closest to our own personality. My best friend & I were Hawkeye & Trapper respectively, as leaders & pranksters of the gang. The shortest in our group got to be ‘Radar’, the bustiest ‘Hot Lips’ etc. Feel bad for poor N who because no other character was left, got called ‘Klinger’ :D

(03) Mala D - This wasn’t widely used (praise God). Got this nick from a very naughty little boy who lived down the street from me about 15 years ago. He found out that Mala D was the name of a contraceptive & shared it with all the boys. Of course at that age it was unbelievably funny that my name sounded so similar. Recently met up with one guy from the group & we were having a drink & catching up when he suddenly goes “Mala D… do you remember??” Yeah, like I could forget. Sigh.

(04) Princess - This one is used especially to tease me because I have some very minute quirks (eg: I don’t like to eat in open restaurants) which I have Very Good reasons for but I still get rilled at by my ‘friends’. Recently got it tattooed in Chinese on my right arm during my last holiday in Goa

(05) Smiley - There was this one guy who liked me, way back in school & he told his friends “I love her smile”. Unfortunately for me, that was the time the song “I love your smile” by Shanice was on the charts & I had everyone singing it to me when he was around.

The nick Smiley really caught on in college though, when one guy K* started calling me that. He was part of this huge group and soon it pretty much spread.

Subsequently, have had a whole lot of people over a period of time call me this. I’ve even had strangers come upto me & tell me I have a beautiful smile (or something like that) & people in church who I’ve never talked to before come and say to me “It’s so great that you’re always smiling”. And I usually say “Really? Well, I was called ‘Smiley’ the whole of college”

(06) My darling Nana whom I love calls me “Melsy Wells” and “My graaaaaaaaaaaaaand daughter” She has Alzheimer’s now though, so I’m happy even if she recognises me. The nicks always adds a big smile though!

(07) Three people I used to know called me Angel, Melodious and Baacha respectively.

(08) Laila - Which is actually my second name. People wonder if I’m making a statement with it (many email addresses I use has it in ‘em) about Laila-Majnu & sometimes think I’m kidding about it being my second name. The pic is a Calligraphic Name for Laila, Modern Eastern Kufi Design, ©Mamoun Sakkal 1996

(09) And of course, there are tons of shorts on the actual name - Mello, Melo, Mell, Mel, M.

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When it comes to nicks though, I’m very particular. Don’t like anyone I don’t know well calling me by a nick. Get slightly turned off if someone I’ve just met shortens my name, perhaps I don’t like people who don’t really know me to act familiar. Also wouldn’t want someone to call me a nick someone else has coined up (though Veronica Lodge, Princess & Smiley have been used by various groups over the years!)

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And I though I sometimes complain & pout when the ones I love call me the nicks they’ve coined for me, I actually love it! I feel like I’m Melody to the world, so there’s something special between me & the person / group that calls me a nick.

Yes, even with the guys who called me Mala D.

30 Responses to “What’s in a Name?”

  1. hey…those nicks are so cute..
    all i got called while growing up was..

    1) “chiro” ..which means “a brick” in konkani.
    2) Baby elephant
    3) Tomato
    4) Hardy… (not the hardy boys..more like laurel and hardy !!)
    5) and yeah..the eternaL…FATSO !!

    so consider urself lucky… !!

  2. Unbelievable, You were around when M*A*S*H first aired on TV, was’nt that in the early 70s.

  3. gr8 post…very different….BTW whenever i read ur name…the first thing which comes to my mind is “melody hey choclatee”…lol…”mala D”…that was hilarious…

  4. hey cute post, that. Veronica Lodge? nope. U r more like Betty :)

    Mala D thing was a cutie. lol

  5. I like Chets better than Chetan ….

  6. @ Lothario: Very cute! Chiro sounds really sweet… what a chiro you are! You’re a real chiro! & lol to the tomato :D

    @ Mario: It’s unbelievable because it’s not true!! I meant the time it was running here in Bbay India, in the early nineties!

    @ Sherriff: Yeah, get that from everyone, especially those I just meet. But mercifully it hasn’t stuck as a nick

    @ Aparna: Interesting… why do you think I’m more like Betty?? Hmmm…

    @ Chets: ok then!

  7. LOL…
    like this post..
    based on ur blog.. i’d say Veronica and Princess suit u best ;-)

    plus.. like Mario’s comment!! :))

  8. but u got a great writing style !!!!

  9. Man!! that naughty lil boy reminds me of my tryst as one :) Cheers to him!! Long live naughty creativity!! But glad that it didnt stick on to you.

  10. well, i dunno…
    maybe coz Ronnie is a hardcore snob and betty is a sweet darling.

  11. The idea behind that Chinese tattoo sounds cool. :-)

    And LOL @ the last line. :-))

  12. Yeah like Aparna said Veronica’s more of a snob, where as you’re more of a brat.

    “Mala D” =))

  13. @ gps: That’s what most people seem to think!

    @ Chets: Thx!

    @ biju: :D I’m glad it didn’t stick too !!

    @ Aparna: Awwwww…. thx so much xoxo

    @ Jo: Yeah totally loved the tattoo myself

    @ Van: Brat?.. Humph… off with his head!

  14. hey melody, how have u been?? nice nicks…as far as ive known u thru this blog, i guess ‘princess’ will suit u more than anything else :) and yeah Mala D is damn funny!!
    btw cooool tattoo!!

  15. My fave is the Ronnie Lodge one :) … Spoiled li’l brat, are we? :D
    Mala D… I’d like to shake the hand of the guy who thought that up =))
    I’m surprised no one nicknamed u Chocolateeeee… that was one of the most popular jingles arnd then…
    So… what’s ur favourite among them?

  16. Oh boy listen to this, Our School Leader’s name was D. Mala… and you know what we D boys did to her courage and snobishness… poor thing

  17. :P

  18. Great post…A truly enjoyable read :)

    noojes

  19. @ Melody: naaaaahhhhiiiii…. I just had a hair cut. :P

  20. @ gypsy: Been good :) Yeah lots of ppl will agree with you abt the Princess! And yeah, the tatoo was cool indeed :)

    @ dev: Ronnie Lodge! That one’s been with me the longest I think! Lots of people would say Melody hai Chocolatee or some part of the jingle but usually only when they first meet me. It never really stuck as a nick

    @ biju: Really???!!! Poor thing… I know EXACTLY what she must have felt like… Sigh, you boys really are the pits!!

    @ harry: Put yer tongue back in boy!!

    @ noojes: Thx dear! How you been? Coming over there right now…

    @ Van: Lol… that reminded me of “Nahi nahi, khabi nahi…” one of my fav hindi songs ;)

  21. Hey…hilarious post
    You do have some of Veronica’s traits ;) …. and a few of Betty’s too
    Melodious is really sweet :)

  22. @ Andrew: Hello & Welcome back! Hope this means you’re feeling better!
  23. Veronica: Hey comics!
    Mala D: We had a guy in class called Dibya Ranjan Malla. He became D Mala, then Mala D. But it didn’t stop there. He eventually became Malady and then Rogi. :)

  24. nice refreshing post, {….} - now, which nick do I use ???

    I don’t know if I every had a nick. no one atleast used to call me with a nick, atleast in front of me ;) hahaha.

  25. Hi Melody. Yup! I’m feeling Great :D….those 5 days at Hinduja were kinda crazy .. I’m so happy its all over . Praise the LORD.

  26. @ Vijay: Lol… yeah I know how the pet names tend to progress from one thing to another too… Your poor classmate, I can empathize with him!

    @ Arjun: So what did they call ya behind yer back??! HMM!

    @ Andrew: :) Good to know

  27. Generally cute nicks.
    Here’s what I got stuck with growing up.
    1. Oginni - the name of someone who was slow, ‘cos it used to take me a whole day to finish one meal.

    2. DeeJay - ‘cos I’ve got a li’l ol’ stutter going on

    3. Current - ‘cos I was a li’l hot with the ladies in high school ;) - not trying to blow my own trumpet, but then again, if I don’t who will.

    and finally

    4. Luminus - first given to me by a friend whose last name *was* bright, was because she’s now married. It’s deeply siritual and it’s an acronym for “Lighting Up Men, Illuminating Nations Under the Sun”, which I beleive is my life’s purpose.

  28. @ Luminous: Hey, sorry didn’t see this till right now! Nice to hear about your life’s purpose, very very noble :)
  29. I think those who hear your second name and say ‘Laila Majnu’ watch too many (second rate) Bollywood films. I am curious if anyone has brought up Aliph Laila (The Thousand Nights or Arabian Nights as most Indians know it)? _That_ would have been a serious literary reference! :-)

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